Since I sort of just tossed up my thoughts there, some people might want an easier-to-digest version.

• Do what you like.
  • The problem is some people like to do things that are stupid/dumb and are context insensitive. So for those people, no, don’t do what you like if it’s those dumb things.
  • There are things that are common sense. It’s a vague and grey area so I’ll leave it at that.
    • But know that it can be a grey area, so have some grace/mercy when dealing with such.
  • Try to not be KY. We are KY I know but do your best.
  • …and some of you are just trolling, so welp.
  • Unfortunately this also determines if you are yakkai or not. Honestly? It doesn’t matter, from a western point of view.
• Learn about the time/context/place of the thing you are at, and the things you want to do.
  • Wotagei is a type of nerd dance style and is generally inappropriate at a public venue, outside of chika idol shows, anikura, etc.
  • For anime/2D idol/anison fests, calls are appropriate usually, and even if you don’t want to do them, sometimes you should at least learn about them and do them for show at critical junctures?
  • Learn about the acts and the show you are at, if you can. Why are you there, anyway? Festival events are different than solo lives for this reason, usually.
    • Go prepared. Learn ahead of time. Watch some live footage. Read concert reports. Get an idea of calls if not learn them outright.
    • Send flowers, bring gifts, make call books, whatever. But these are bonus round items, don’t get your undies in a wad if these things don’t work out.
      • Definitely don’t make trouble if they don’t. Instead, think positively as a fan, what would you do to make the best of it?
    • Meet other fans! Socialize!
    • Don’t get hung up by penlights or stuff that are secondary to your enjoyment of the show.
    • If you learn what you should do, you can also avoid what you shouldn’t do. And maybe, just maybe, you can get more enjoyment out of these events.
• Don’t cause trouble, especially if you are a foreigner in a foreign land, but when you invariably do so, just play dumb and be yourself :)
  • To paraphrase a good teacher, if we are to enjoy these gifts that are the reasons in which we attend events, the best way to get along is with love, respect and charity.
• It’s okay to [insert any Frequently Asked thing here]. Just don’t do it when you know it’ll cause problems. If you don’t know, it’s better err on the safe side. Or you could always ask some people who are also going to the same event, or the management if necessary.
• Bonus: Don’t get hung up on jizos or house tigers. It’s a waste of your time, it’s a waste of my time. People have the right to enjoy themselves by doing nothing (or even sitting down at a seated venue), or by having a good time “moving” (assuming it adheres to the rules). Yes, there’s a fear that young people or people who don’t know any better may get the wrong idea, but this fear will never end if you let it control you from having a good time. Yeah, there will be people who go too far and need to be disciplined, removed, what have you, but don’t let that get in the way of your fellowship.
  • But it does make good whine material and troll bait.
  • As Tadokoro Azusa said, “So what?”
• Extra Credit: Go to different live events, learn what it is in different countries, for mainstream and indie bands, for EDM, metal, pop, rock, country, classical, opera, whatever. Widen your perspective. Go to a Hanshin Tigers game and watch real cheering.